A Time for Every Season: Embracing Life’s Balance in Ecclesiastes 3

by Tamara Sylvestre

Ecclesiastes 3:1-13, New Revised Standard Version

31 For everything there is a season, and a time for every matter under heaven:

2 a time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant, and a time to pluck up what is planted;

3 a time to kill, and a time to heal; a time to break down, and a time to build up;

4 a time to weep, and a time to laugh; a time to mourn, and a time to dance;

5 a time to throw away stones, and a time to gather stones together; a time to embrace, and a time to refrain from embracing;

6 a time to seek, and a time to lose; a time to keep, and a time to throw away;

7 a time to tear, and a time to sew; a time to keep silence, and a time to speak;

8 a time to love, and a time to hate; a time for war, and a time for peace.

9 What gain have the workers from their toil? 10 I have seen the business that God has given to everyone to be busy with. 11 He has made everything suitable for its time; moreover, he has put a sense of past and future into their minds, yet they cannot find out what God has done from the beginning to the end. 12 I know that there is nothing better for them than to be happy and enjoy themselves as long as they live; 13 moreover, it is God’s gift that all should eat and drink and take pleasure in all their toil.

This passage has been my favorite in the Bible for as long as I can remember. I find it to be wonderful reminder to live for the moment because all things come to an end. Enjoy our good moments for what they are as long as we have them. Trudge through the hard times because these too pass. God gives us balance and there is something to gain from all aspects of life. God decides on the season, we decide how we live it.